I was on the brink of divorce. Having children, this was a very difficult decision. Then I spoke to Sayeda and when I had given up all hope of saving my marriage, let alone my sanity, she said there was “still hope, even now” these words moved me but I was cynical because I couldn’t see how. I had never felt so low in my life.
When I started having coaching, I couldn’t believe how much better I felt though I couldn’t see how the issues that my partner had could change as I was the one having the coaching. But after a few months, I feel that I have changed, and things have changed. I now have hope again. I had always been the optimistic person, the agony aunt to everyone. Finally, I found the calm person inside me that I knew existed. I am in control, I am dealing with situations with my new tools and it is so natural that only when I touch base with Sayeda to give her an update on my progress, before we take things further, that I realise that the new me has handled the situations in a different way, and of course, the results are different. I still have bad days, but who doesn’t, but now I take it in my stride and I know that if it’s too much, Sayeda is but a phone call away.